This Saturday is World AIDS Day. In my opinion, a very good reason to
publish Jack Idema's death certificate. This should be a painful reminder to
everyone that AIDS is fatal, and to practice safe sex. In the United States,
even if a person dies of an opportunistic infection as a result of being
infected with AIDS, the cause of death typically will not say that. The cause of
death will usually be complications due to pneumonia, undisclosed illness, or
coronary related.
Jack Idema decided in his sick, convoluted, twisted mind to
take as many people he could with him while he was ill. I am HIV positive
because of my stupidity and Idema's selfishness. I really thought I was ready to
put all this behind me when Jack Idema died this past January.
Sadly, this is
not so. Recently, I have come upon information that unfortunately, for me and
others, is quite tragic. I won't even begin to speculate how many more people
this is also a tragedy for. When I told the individuals that I know he infected
along with me; their reaction was disbelief, grief, and anger.
I had always been
under the impression that he had acquired HIV/AIDS in Mexico. To say that I am
pissed is an understatement. I cannot fathom any reason that anyone could do
this. Believe me when I say any precious moments that he & I shared that
were good; have all been eradicated because of this new information. I am past
mad and past shocked. Just as I thought I had a new start, again I have had the
rug pulled out from underneath me. I now know that he had been positive since
2004.
I can't say it enough to everyone----------use a CONDOM! One indiscretion
can cause death. Just as I thought I had a new start, again I have had the rug
pulled out from underneath me. He had told several people before he died that
he, and members of Task Force Saber 7, were sodomized and beaten repeatedly upon
their arrest in Kabul, Afghanistan on July 5, 2004. They were infected with HIV
and other STD's at that time.
The State Department confirms this as well. This
is another reason that he turned traitor because he was willing to do anything
to stop the torture. His explanation was that no matter what your sexual
preference is, when it is against your will it is rape.
Obviously, I was very
troubled by this revelation for many reasons. I had a relationship with this man
and he never told me, yet he knew the whole time. As did other individuals,
involved with the whole Afghanistan drama, who I shall not name. My fault was
not protecting myself in the beginning and believing him. And he was raped and
suffered major pain, yet when he raped me and I filed charges that should have
been a whole different scenario. It wasn't.
I did tell everyone to get tested
because of the activities that were taking place while I was and wasn't there.
So he was HIV positive in 2004, and had a car accident on September 17, 2009,
which put his immune system in full blown AIDS. In my mind, the numbers never
added up properly and it always bugged me. I wanted answers but now that I have
them, well, let's just say be careful of what you wish for. Hopefully, this will
prove to everyone that he did, indeed, die of AIDS. The cause of death says
SÃndrome de
inmunodeficiencia adquirida (SI DA), which means AIDS in Spanish.
....Also, now that he has passed and no one is afraid of being sued or killed,
people are coming out to relieve their consciences and get rid of their guilt
regarding his last few months on earth. It seems that he & his beard, Elaine
Roach, as well as some male guests, still were living large with the drugs. So
large, that a month before he passed, the drug dealers wanted their money and
were sick of waiting on it. Elaine decided to give away the decrepit jeep and a
small jet ski boat to the dealers to keep them away till she could escape to
Canada. She also sold two of his swords to get money to get a cab and a one way
ticket out of Mexico. Elaine Roach bolted from CasaArabi/CasaBlanca on Friday
January 6, 2012.
An anonymous source who helped Elaine get her belongings out,
says that she was so disgusted with Jack's lies, that she poured out all the
clean water, threw out what little food was left and grabbed a small pouch of
coke for the ride to the airport. The next day, Jack hobbled over to a
neighbor's house, using a broomstick for a crutch, begging for water. The
neighbor gave him some and said he looked like he was about to die right then
and there. She said he was talking about how he thought he had swine flu and all
he needed was a good antibiotic and he'd be fine.
Jack was so weak by then and
had ADC (AIDS dementia complex). He saw a doctor in Chetumal in early Dec. 2011,
who told him that he had little time left and if there was any possible way at
all, he should go back to the States to try to get some kind of relief. His
answer to the doctor was that he didn't have a cent to his name and if he did,
he was not going to risk the journey because he was going to wind up in jail. He
gave up his citizenship and there was no free medical care for him because he
was never a recognized member of any American armed forces.
The death
certificate says Idema died on Saturday January 21. I don't believe that to be
the truth. Sources have told me that by the time the police went to CasaArabi,
his body was showing significant decomposition. The odor was overwhelming, his
skin was decaying and was a greenish/gray color. His face and body bloated, and
the flies were everywhere, with maggots around his track marks. The last time he
was seen on Skype was Monday January 16. I called him Friday January 20 and the
phone just rang.
Eyewitnesses tell me he was dead before Saturday January 21.
The house was looted while he was dying because he was too weak to stop them.
Elaine had also allowed Nina & Tinka to be taken. As I have written before,
I spoke with Jack on Tuesday January 10. Obviously, I did not know all I know
now. I still would have helped get Nina & Tinka to safety with Elena and
David, but I would not have been so kind to him on the phone. No matter how many
times I mull it over, I cannot excuse what he did to me and others. He KNEW he
was positive but didn't care. He spread this virus to I couldn't even begin to
imagine how many men and women. Knowingly and intentionally. And the fact that
he was infected years earlier, makes it even more devastating.
How many others
were infected in Dubai and England (his 2 stops before Mexico)? And what about
those who knew when he was released from Polacharki? How come they never said
anything? In my mind, that makes them as guilty as him. The charges that I filed
on July 30, 2010, were swept under the carpet. He got away with what he did to
me. I said then he was infecting men and women, and no one took it seriously.
Well, what about now? Doesn't say a whole lot about my government or the Mexican
government. Especially my government who knew he was infected and didn't bother
to extradite him here to face charges of what he did to me.
The Mexican
government is just as bad, when you consider the fact that he was in Mexico
illegally, dealing drugs and arms, and infecting their people with a bunch of
fatal viruses. Did they think he was just not worth the effort or was it that
all of us that he infected was not worth the effort? I would love to have
someone answer that question for me. Especially now. The death certificate
proves it.
Wonder what the Idema Fan Club groupies think of this. I already know
what one of Idema's lawyers think, but I am curious about the others. The real
shysters that stuck with Jack through thick and thin until the heat came down on
them.
Anyway, that is all for the next installment, which is the going to be the
final one for me. I apologize in advance to anyone who might think this is an
irrelevant story.
Please understand that in this world of reality TV which seems
to grab everyone's attention, I feel this is an important reality story that
needs to be told. I cannot say it enough------everyone use a condom! AIDS does
not discriminate. Homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, transgender, young, old,
white, black, hispanic, male, female------------doesn't matter. HIV/AIDS loves
everyone!
One indiscretion can kill you. Perhaps, I can help someone not get
this virus. I can't begin to ever tell anyone what this disease does to you.
Medically, of course, but other areas in your life you can never get back. There
is no remission, only a complete change of life. How it affects everyone close
to you, and how the stigma that is attached never goes
away.
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